tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28395622.post1064077711913502157..comments2023-04-15T03:16:13.479-05:00Comments on The Wordy Bitch: Hey! I Resent That!Ima Wurdibitschhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16318902722661315000noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28395622.post-37087277688668199622007-07-09T14:23:00.000-05:002007-07-09T14:23:00.000-05:00Anger Hangover -I love what Becca said about this....Anger Hangover -<BR/><BR/>I love what Becca said about this. I'm going to agree and elaborate with some of my own thoughts.<BR/><BR/>I don't know if there's anything you can do with it, especially when it falls on deaf ears. I attended Al-Anon for a while and that helped some. Sometimes you have to just let go of it. You can't change them. <BR/><BR/>For me, it really helps to just get the words out. Whether it's talking to the person or just writing my feelings down on paper (or screen). Not keeping those feelings bottled up helps. Bottling them up causes that anger and resentment to build and build. A touch of bitterness or anger can serve you well if you direct it properly. I find myself getting angry at the situation (or myself for the way I'm handling it). <BR/><BR/>As much as possible, I refuse to let the actions and attitudes of someone else determine mine. I, alone, am responsible for what I say and how I act. How someone else has treated me is no excuse.<BR/><BR/>When the resentment is so strong that I'm unable to let it go, I distance myself from the person or situation. That distance can be physical or emotional.<BR/><BR/>I wish I had better answers.Ima Wurdibitschhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16318902722661315000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28395622.post-42472233204253069842007-07-08T01:31:00.000-05:002007-07-08T01:31:00.000-05:00Sometimes it is worth it to just let it go. Other ...Sometimes it is worth it to just let it go. Other times it makes me feel better just to know I've said it, even if I get no response or the person doesn't get it at all. Either way it's kind of dependent on me.<BR/><BR/>Recently I did the second one when I had been considering the first. I got no response but I still feel great. Even if they can't figure out why, they know the problem exists.<BR/><BR/>Unless they didn't get my e-mail. That would suck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28395622.post-54917755059438428922007-07-07T07:50:00.000-05:002007-07-07T07:50:00.000-05:00I resent the fact that I don't know what to do wit...I resent the fact that I don't know what to do with my resentment - especially at family members. When letting them know just how you feel falls on deaf ears - what then? I guess I'll take my resentment chilled with a splash of bitterness, please.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com